Monday, August 15, 2011
Mirthful Monday - Communication Breakdown
Have you noticed that as stress increases, the channels to communication often break down? The conversational waters become polluted with the flotsam and jetsam of bad feelings which could include anger, resentment, withdrawal and lack of cooperation.
Problems can arise whenever one or both parties involved are stressed. Negative thoughts and feelings can quickly set a conversation off-course. The listener may not be fully engaged or misconstrue the context of what is being said. The speaker may have difficulty with expressing how they feel in a respectful or constructive manner.
Regularly practising stress transformation techniques will help you safely navigate the sometimes murky conversational waters.
If you are learning another language, stress techniques will help you there, too! (More about this in a future post.)